What a Muslim should not work for Ramazan Bajram

Although in the course of Ramadan, our minbera calls for a dignified celebration of Bajram, often, these recommendations remain under those people who would never desecrate the holiness of a Muslim holiday. Here we will briefly point out a few things, phenomena and actions that should not be seen in families, homes, mahalams and cities bh. Muslims.

1. To sleep Sabah. It often happens that Muslims do not practice the tradition of their fathers and grandparents when the first day she was shivt, ie on the Bajram’s morning, mandatory went to Sabah-Prayer. Time from Sabah-Prayer to Bajram-prayer in our mosques is carried out in Ibadet, so it is a beautiful custom that, unfortunately, increasingly practicing. Some even sleep Sabah and come only on the Bajram-spread.
2. To be late on Bajram-prayer. Although from year to year, we testify to the crowds for Bajram-Namaz some still even for this special morning and herself and their younger frustrating delays on Bajram-prayer. Instead of an earlier arrival in the mosque, especially those who go to the mosque just for Bajrame, some believers come before the prayer themselves, so they don’t even hear the imams who explain how to bake Bajram-prayer.
3. Forget Sadekatu-L-Fitr. Giving a sadekatu-l-Fitr before the Bajram-prayer alone can only those who did not have funds, e.g. She was late for salary. Many waiting for Sadekatu-L-Fitra to the Bajram-prayer risk risks to be late to give Sadekatu-l-Fitr. Do something wonder if something is on the way to the mosque or case of illness so that this Ibadet is absolving a post?
4. Don’t congratulate the family first. First, in addition to the present in the mosque, we need to congratulate Bajram are our householders. There is no need to reserve in cafes to talk to friends. We can do this during the next two or three days. The sunny persons and, if God that, forgiven sins, the first to wish, a kiss and handling should feel our households, especially husband and young children. Fixed women in the house, Bajramui to the afternoon, because the husband spends time with friends in confectioners, cafes or other people’s houses. Our wives have friends, families, relatives, but toes in the houses and the atmosphere and the blessing keep exclusively for us, so the first address after Bajram should be our home.
5. Leave someone I’m biramus. It’s nice to call a student or someone else who has to throw himself in our house, so as not by the Bajram’s joy to reduce solitude. Of course, if we have a father, mother, sister or someone from the family who lives alone, he needs to offer to Bajram welcoming with us. If they refuse, then after the family first visit them and congratulate them.
6. Do not prepare yourself and household. In the Islamic tradition of Bosniaks, the custom of dressing a new or most beautiful clothing we have is present. In our terms, it is often a solemn suit or clothing with dominating white. There is no code to be trained, but is it really appropriate to go in sneakers, slippers or in a t-shirt-spreading shirt? During the aggression, I would buy people at least new socks or laundry to make it different from others. In this day, Muslims need to show others to hold on to themselves, both behavior and appearance. Also, our attitude towards this day is reflected in our younger generations, so when they see our special attitude towards Bajram, starting from the preparation of clothing, they will make this day even more important, and the impressions remain throughout life. Of course, those who do not have funds for at least a new pair of socks have no obligation for a new or special clothing. To them, as well as any other Muslim, the obligation is to prepare your body. Swimming Before Bajram-Prayer is for every Muslim liability based on the Sunnah.
7. Do not prepare a house, a courtyard and mosque. Cleaning of Muslim homes and courts, as well as (harem) mosque, is one of the most beautiful customs in the Islamic tradition of Bosniaks. The most common of our houses and homes is not necessary to clean, because they are constantly in this condition, but this act of cleaning gives a special impression for Bajram. Namely, after cleaning the soul in Ramadan and our thoughts, cleaning our body and clothing is accompanied by the cleaning of homes, courtyards and mosques. It is a complete circle that is an indispensable part of preparation for anyone who truly holds up to its own tradition.
8. Do not prepare gifts. Unfortunately, our Islamic tradition of buying gifts for Bajrame individual Muslims have begun to change the purchase gifts for birthdays and similar occasions and instead of giving extra reason for Bajram many and not feel this moment of gifting. Some are unusual because they have to spend additional money for gifts, although they did not feel that way when they wasted themselves in the year. It is better to keep our gifts, or gifts, all year round, even nothing to buy, but that the gifts are provided for Bajram, at least the simplest. Of course, if we planned someone to delight a special or expensive gift Bajram is an ideal moment. Also, we don’t give young people gifts before Bajram, but on Bajram Day, after Bajram-prayer, as a reward that tried in the post. These are moments that will never forget.
9. Omit sergia. Bajramska Sergija is one of the symbols of Bajram. Sergijes in our mosques are, we can say, gifts for our mosques. Many have a beautiful custom to give their children money that will give exclusively for sergia and thus build a sense of donating as well as for a jamaat. It is nice to be happy with saddom and those looking for Бейрам, if we are sure of the person’s use of this day when they “import” those who seek money in certain cities.
10. Forget neighbors and their children. How can a Muslim look forward to Bajram, if he knows that in his neighborhood or among friends and relatives there is someone who and this Bajram greeted without work or in difficult conditions? Keeping the honor of the brother Muslims can give a higher amount of money to his children as bajrumluk, from which he can benefit the entire family.
11. Don’t call the village. All congratulations, Bajram, but many omit our first greeting – Selam. Only after the villages, let’s congratulate each other and study the Dovo to us to Allah, J. Š., Receive Ibadete in Ramadan. The dova with greeting card is from the Sunno and the words of Bajram mubarecules are not enough.
12. Omit visits. Visits to family members and friends is custom based on the Qur’an and the Sunnah. Due to the modern way of life, relations between relatives can occur over time, so it is easier to use Bajram as a reason for visits, especially further relatives, friends and neighbors. They must not forget those who will throw in hospitals and public institutions.
13. Do not visit the Mezarje. In our tradition, they are trying to delight and live and died for Bajram. Believers give Sadaka for himself as for his died and visit the Mezaristan in order to learn the Qur’an, recalling those who may have already passed Bajram with them. In the nations, “yes and died, Bajram” would be said. Those who are especially kept by their died offices of their corks and you remember them learning the Qur’an after the last mucabel day before Bajram. Unfortunately, some omit this custom and all of the Mezar’s numbers that are disregarded and look like they have no one who thinks of a dove or fatih. Therefore, believers learn the dog in the Mezarje on the Mezarje.
14. Forget the day of shahid. The best practice is that the first day of Bajrama is dedicated more to life, and the other day died when the day of Shehid is also marked. It is humiliating for one nation, which every year is a small number of people on the marking days of Šehid, when we remember those who gave their lives to live and birean. This is especially negative that the younger generations learn from us to live on those who sacrificed, because on the one hand they look at the attitude towards still living former fighters, and the other side of oblivion of killed.
15. Inappropriate marking of the Bajram. It is incompatible with Bajram, actually Islam, the so-called Cabin ‘celebration in taverns and places where alcohol and real entertainment is the form of “party of the Islamic community”, as it is the abuse of Islamic symbols and feasts of advertising the so-called. Bajrami Siela, Dernek, Party, Festival and Sl. Some catering shops and cafes bringing the largest Islamic Feast of Bajram to the cafefan ambience of fun, often with the participation of singers and singers who do not feel and do not understand the spirit and the meaning of Bajram. “, it says Revival.